Sounds like a simple solution, remove the mute (if not already done) and stop doxxing/talking about each other when no one else on the server gives a shit.
Seems doable.
Regardless of one's relationship status, if they're a regular amongst the community and often give their opinion when they don't think something is right, they should be able to do so now.
I don't see the point of bringing this up but if you think it is a valid response I don't have an issue with it.